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If you really loved me ...

If I was what I should be ...

When you are in pain ....

If I allow myself to be close ...

Discover the Hidden Expectations and Assumptions that Sabotage Love

A Laundry List of Marital Mishaps, Knots, and Double Binds is a collection of common hidden and faulty assumptions that plague many of us, along with suggested attitudes or thoughts that will help us find ways to have more realistic expectations of ourselves and the people we love.

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Hidden Expectation

If you loved me, you would know what I think, feel, want, and you would give it to me. Since you don’t, you obviously don’t care. So why should I care for you, or for what you think, feel, say, want or do? So when you tell me what you want, I won’t be interested. I will be withholding.